A place for siblings to belong
For Children’s Grief Awareness Week, 16 – 22 November, we’re highlighting the importance of #KeepingConnected, helping bereaved children and young people stay connected to their memories, their loved ones, and to others who understand what they are going through.
When a child dies, the impact is felt across the whole family. For siblings, navigating life after the death of a brother or sister can be particularly challenging. Feelings of sadness, loneliness and isolation are common, which is why creating opportunities for bereaved siblings to connect with one another is such an important part of the support offered by Shooting Star.
Marion Barton, Lead Therapist at Shooting Star, said: “When a child dies it is so important that care for their siblings is prioritised. Many siblings can feel alone in their grief and so opportunities for them to come together, such as our siblings’ days and grief workshops, are an integral part of the care we provide at Shooting Star.
“Earlier this year we invited a group of bereaved siblings to join us for our three-day Band Camp workshop where they each had the opportunity to compose and record a song for their brother or sister who had died. The feedback we gained from them showed us how important these spaces are for them to be able to remember their sibling and share a connection with other bereaved siblings.”
Among the children benefiting from this support are siblings Aviraj, aged twelve, and Anaysha, aged six, who regularly attend Shooting Star’s sibling events and activities.
Anaysha says coming to Shooting Star makes her feel “nice and happy”. For Aviraj, he particularly values spending time with other bereaved siblings, saying, “It’s nice to be with siblings who have experienced similar things.” He also enjoys creative activities, explaining, “Art therapy gets your mind off everything. You can focus on something new.” Reflecting on the impact of Shooting Star’s support, he adds, “Shooting Star has got my mind off the bad things and helped me do positive stuff.”
Their experiences highlight the importance of creating spaces where bereaved children and young people can connect with others who understand, build friendships and feel supported through their grief.
Every bereaved sibling deserves a place where they feel understood. This Children’s Grief Awareness Week, help us continue providing specialist support, creative therapies and dedicated sibling events that enable children and young people to connect with others who share similar experiences and navigate their grief together. Please consider donating today.
